Healing Trauma & Anxiety in NYC: Break Free from People-Pleasing
Do you often say “yes” when you want to say “no”? If you find yourself constantly putting others’ needs ahead of your own, you’re not alone. People-pleasing may feel like the easiest way to keep the peace or gain approval, but it can leave you feeling drained, anxious, and disconnected from your true self.
People-pleasing isn’t just a bad habit. It’s often a survival mechanism rooted in past trauma, attachment wounds, or a fear of rejection. Over time, it can lead to anxiety, resentment, and a diminished sense of self-worth. The good news is, healing is possible. In this post, we’ll explore how people-pleasing develops, its connection to trauma and anxiety, and steps you can take to break free.
Two Things That Impact Your Relationship and How to Make it Better
Humans are wired for attachment. When my clients say, “I’ll just be alone forever,” I know they don’t mean it. We are designed to be interdependent, and it’s ok to want someone to depend upon. In fact, science demonstrates that the more our needs ARE met in our dependency years, the more confident and independent we can become.
Our emotional needs continue to vie for attention as adults though, and research again demonstrates that when we feel safely partnered, we can feel secure enough to venture forth in other endeavors. Learn how to make your relationship secure.
5 Signs You Might Be in a Codependent Triangle
Codependency isn’t a new subject. Unfortunately, it’s become something of a buzzword in everything from psychology to marriage counseling. However, while many people understand the basic definition of a codependent relationship, fewer have an understanding of a codependent triangle.
A codependent triangle comprises three roles; rescuers, persecutors, and victims. Read this post to learn what roles you play.